As a fellow daughter of a narcissist and a sociopath, I'm impressed by your ability to let go of control. I spent so much of my life trying to figure out how to have control over a reality I couldn't make sense of (until recently). You've made a brave choice, and I appreciate your novel approach. Its not easy to trust when you've grown up when surrounded by people you can't trust.

I love your quote, "We dont' want orders. We want invitations". I wish I knew that line when I needed it!